By Alexandra Whittaker
Updated Jan 10, 2019 @ 4:45 pm

Unlike some celebrity brides (see: Meghan Markle), Miley Cyrus wanted to keep her wedding to Liam Hemsworth as private as humanly possible. There was no grand walk-up to a church, no big wedding dress reveal, and of course, no photographs — oh wait, yes there were.

Despite Cyrus and Hemsworth's attempts to keep their "I dos" out of the spotlight, snapshots of their secret wedding still made rounds, thanks to their friend and guest Conrad Jack Carr. Carr posted a photo on his Instagram Story, which was a big no no.

“Even with family and close friends, they still made a point to say, ‘Hey guys, this is a private thing for a reason,'" Miley's big sis Brandi recalled on her podcast. "'We love you all, but please don’t take photos.’”

Even though Carr broke the rule, Cyrus wasn't going to make a big deal of it. Brandi said she “doesn’t really care," though Carr sure feels guilty about it.

“He feels really bad," Brandi said. "I didn’t really ask what happened, but I think from what he said, no one told him not to post about it, so he didn’t know.”

Pretty sure he's aware now, though.