Celebrity Ansel Elgort Defines Boyfriend #Goals: “I Adore My Girlfriend” By Jonathan Borge Jonathan Borge Instagram Twitter Jonathan Borge is a writer and editor living in New York City. His writing has appeared in Glamour, Refinery29, Forbes, and PAPER, among other publications. Plus, he's held staff positions at Marie Claire, InStyle, and OprahDaily.com. Currently, he's the Senior Entertainment Editor at Bustle Digital Group's Elite Daily, where he oversees digital covers, features and profiles, freelance essays, and strategy for the site's TV/Movies and Celebrity and Music sub-verticals.He primarily writes about pop culture and style, and has a passion for telling LGBTQ+ and Latinx stories. When he's not working, he's likely waiting for Lady Gaga to announce her next tour. InStyle's editorial guidelines Updated on November 17, 2016 @ 04:00PM Pin Share Tweet Email Photo: anselelgort/Instagram First things first: Ansel Elgort is definitely off the market. We caught up with the 22-year-old star Tuesday night at the New York opening of Canada Goose’s new U.S. flagship and his eyes instantly lit up the second we mentioned his girlfriend, Violetta Komyshan. The actor regularly takes to Instagram to share their private moments together and the results, we find, exude romance. “I really adore my girlfriend because I feel like I can be any part of myself and we’re very open with each other,” he told InStyle of his relationship with Komyshan. As for what they do to keep the flames of love lit, it’s quite simple: “It really changes,” he told us. “We have some nights when we really like to do it up, and we both dress up and do fun, fancy things. And then we have nights when we go to a takeout Chinese place in Bed-Stuy and watch Seinfeld and just chill out.” So what exactly are some of those “fun, fancy things”? “She might be coming to the AMAs with me and then we’ll both dress up,” he quipped. “We’ll have a good time doing that and then we’ll get home, we’re tired, and we act like regular people.” How could you not crush on Ansel? Take a look at a few of the couple’s most adorable ‘grams together below: RELATED: Go Behind the Scenes with Man of Style Ansel Elgort And prepare to watch them walk the carpet at the American Music Awards on Sunday.