They might be non-committal, but you’ll adore their sharp-witted conversational skills. 

By Maressa Brown
Updated Apr 17, 2020 @ 11:15 am
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When the sun lights up bright blue skies for even more hours of the day and there’s an eager, cheerful, celebratory vibe in the air, you can guess that Gemini season is in full swing. Annually, roughly between May 21 to June 20, the sun moves through the third sign of the zodiac, Gemini, symbolized by the Twins.

In the excitable, four-week lead-up to the Summer Solstice, it’s easy to find every excuse to connect and socialize, research and daydream out loud about adventures down the road, and perfect your warm-weather look. This energy is influenced by Gemini, an air sign associated with sharing and communicating, learning, and constantly being on the move. These traits are owed to Gemini’s ruling planet, Mercury, which oversees communication, transportation, and technology.

A few curious, expressive, multitasking Twins: Angelina Jolie, Octavia Spencer, Aly Raisman, Amy Schumer, Heidi Klum, Natalie Portman, the Olsen twins, Venus Williams, and Zoe Saldana. These celebs are astrologically wired to tap into the power of language, human connection, and style to deliver the narratives and messages they find most engaging.

Here, everything you need to know about the communicative, creative, and changeable sign.

Gemini Personality Traits

Those born between May 21 and June 20 can generally conclude that their sun sign is Gemini. (It’s not definitive, because the sun moves between signs on different days annually.) Also note that while we tend to refer to ourselves as our sun sign, it’s just one detail of a natal chart, which is basically a unique snapshot of the sky when you were born. But it’s a detail that helps color your core sense of self, identity, personal style, self-esteem, and confidence.

The chatterbox of the zodiac

Typical sun in Gemini traits include being quick-witted, outgoing, inquisitive, agile, charming, and adaptable. All of these characteristics reflect themes covered by the Third House of Communication, which Gemini rules. The Third House covers all the ways we connect with others, language, technology, early environment and childhood, sibling bonds, community, and short-distance travel.

The information gatherer

Given that messenger Mercury colors Gemini’s personality so strongly, the air sign tends to be eager to learn anything and everything, from the latest iOS to the hottest street styles of the season. Data, research, and the top trending news stories are like a go-to sugar fix for Geminis, and they have an appetite for discussing it all with anyone and everyone up for engaging. Social to their core, they need conversation and connection to thrive in just about any situation. Lovers of language, they adore dirty talk just as much as a forever animated group text and hours spent making their mark on social media platforms.

The mutable air sign

Every sign is assigned a quality (cardinal, mutable, or fixed), which explains the sign’s basic energy. There’s a cardinal, mutable, and fixed sign within every element (fire, earth, air, water). Gemini is the mutable one of the air group, which is just one more reason they’re known to be adaptable at best and flighty at worst. They’re able to shift and change from moment to moment, which can make them both easy going and fickle.

Gemini's best personality traits:

Curious, enthusiastic, clever, and friendly, you can count on a Gemini to bring excitement, animated conversation, and fun-loving, lively energy to the table. They’re your favorite plus-one to that fashion show, the friend you can rely on to spread the word about your next group hang or to spontaneously join you for whichever ClassPass workout you feel like trying on a whim.

Gemini's worst personality traits:

As they’re mercurial and dualistic (they are the Twins, after all), Gemini’s changeability earns them a rep for being two-faced, superficial, flaky, and capricious. They’ll struggle to make up their minds or say one thing and then contradict themselves a couple of minutes later. They’re also masters of using language to make their way in the world, at times talking for the sake of talking. So, their words could lack weight. Their thirst for information and adaptability makes them super-communicators. But they often lack the grounding required for follow-through.

What Gemini Are Like in Love & Bed

Gemini romance style

If a potential partner is blowing up your DMs with flirty, inquisitive chatting, is all about hopping on a Zoom call at a moment’s notice, and possibly hasn’t committed to anything beyond the next text they’re gonna send (and maybe not even that), you might be seeing someone born under the influence of airy, linguistically acrobatic Gemini energy. The air sign loves connecting mentally with anyone they’re relating to, and that absolutely translates to their love lives. So does their breezy and noncommittal vibe. They’re all about exploring a wide variety of options, flirting through endless conversation, and then, maybe once their attention has been captured by someone who keeps them stimulated mentally, they’ll consider settling down.

Gemini’s ultimate date night is one that will fuel their curiosity. Think group set-ups where they can converse and connect with different personalities, activities that allow them to soak up new info and then discuss what they learned (like a class or a museum tour), or a buzz-worthy experience they can report back on via Instagram Story (like a movie premiere or restaurant opening).

Gemini sexual style

Gemini’s chatty, always shifting personality is front and center in the bedroom. They’re vocal, often wanting to share their desires out loud. They might also be into making or hearing sexy noises (e.g. moaning, breathing in their ear). And their affinity for communication is very much a part of their preferred form of foreplay. They’ll consider long catch-ups, inside jokes, or analysis of a favorite band or politician the lead-up to a steamy sex session. As they get more comfortable, they might enjoy long-winded sexting sessions and dirty talk. Given that their ruling planet is cerebral Mercury, don’t be surprised if they seem more satisfied by sexy talk than sex itself. Still, once you’re finally one-on-one, they’ll be eager to please and interested in experimentation, wanting to try a new technique they researched or heard about from a friend, or proposing a variety of position changes.

Gemini Compatibility

Wondering how Gemini matches up with your sign as a friend, a lover, a colleague, or in terms of any other one-on-one relationship? Here, their go-to companions and most problematic pairings:

Most compatible with Gemini:

Signs that share the same element tend to be the most simpatico (e.g. two water signs, like Scorpio and Cancer). This is especially the case for two air signs, both of whom lead with mental energy.

Air is also traditionally compatible with fire, because the two elements complement one another. The two signs share certain attributes, like being free-spirited, independent, speedy, and social.

That said, a Gemini often hits it off with a similarly social, flirtatious Libra, people-loving, intellectual Aquarius, or dynamic, fun-loving Leo.

Least compatible with Gemini:

As with most of the zodiac signs, opposites can attract — and Gemini and Sagittarius often connect on their shared desire to take to the sky and go on an impromptu adventure, experiencing and connecting with the world. But because both are mutable and naturally changeable, they could struggle to commit and feel grounded in their bond.

Gemini is also square (the most challenging angle that can exist between two signs) detail-oriented earth sign Virgo and empathic water sign Pisces. Unless they have other positive aspects in their natal charts, Gemini can respect these two other mutable signs for their ability to switch up their approach based on the way the wind is blowing, but emotionally, they’re too changeable to solidify a connection.

What If You Have Gemini Elsewhere in Your Chart?

As mentioned previously, the sun sign is one of many aspects of a natal chart. When you were born, the moon and all the planets in our solar system were in one of the 12 signs and a particular position — all of which help to inform your personality and areas of your life. Here’s what it means if Gemini shows up in any of the main areas of your chart:

Gemini Moon

The moon, which spends about two to three days in each sign, influences your emotions and intuition. If it was in Gemini at the time of your birth, you have a tendency to intellectualize your emotions and, in a way, for you, talking is synonymous with feeling. You’re happiest when you feel like you have the green light to express what’s in your heart in an airy, changeable, free-spirited way.

Gemini Mercury

Mercury, which spends about two to three weeks in a sign, shapes your communication style. If it was in Gemini when you were born, you’re extremely curious, energized, and perhaps scattered in your thinking and speaking. Self-expression is very much your jam, given that Mercury is at home in the sign of the Twins, and therefore, the energy of the planet and the sign are in sync. You’re constantly craving information input and share it just as readily as you receive it. You might put this placement to use professionally, pursuing a career in communication or technology.

Gemini Venus

Venus, which remains in a sign for about three to five weeks, influences how you behave in relationships and how you attract others. If you were born with the planet of love and beauty in Gemini, you use words and language as your go-to instrument for expressing how you feel. You’re wary of getting “tied down,” as that can feel counter to your mercurial nature. But you’ll eagerly pursue and stay interested in someone who stokes your appetite for cerebral stimulation, either with their adventurous spirit, social prowess, or sharp-witted conversational skills. And when it comes to your personal style, you’re likely known as a trendsetter who’s particular about cultivating an IG-worthy look.

Gemini Mars

Mars, which remains in a sign for six or seven weeks, affects your energy, strength, sexual style, and how you experience courage. If you were born while the fiery, dynamic, fighter planet was in mutable, airy Gemini, communication and action are synonymous in your opinion. You prefer talking through your next move before diving in, and as a born multitasker, you prefer having an array of engaging to-dos to tackle at any given time.

Gemini Ascendant (or Rising)

Your ascendant or rising sign influences how you present yourself to the world. As a Gemini ascendant, you come off as social, playful and even impish, chatty, and quick-witted. You might give off the vibe that you lead with your head over your heart.

Upcoming Astrological Highlights for Gemini

May 22: The new moon in Gemini is your once-a-year opportunity to zero in on powerful intentions you want to set, especially related to your identity and how you present yourself to the world. If you’ve been wanting to pursue a new professional path, try a new dating app, or plot out future travel, now’s the time to clarify your vision and make a move.

May 13-June 25: Venus, your ruling planet, will be retrograde in your sign, urging you to reflect and revise the way you’re caring for yourself. This time was made for taking a pause, which can feel aggravating to you more than other signs, as you prefer to be on the go, but you’ll do well to tap into your signature curiosity to explore the roots of your restlessness. Now’s also the time to perfect your self-love practice.

June 27-January 6: Mars moves through your eleventh house of networking for over six months, even going retrograde at one point (September 9-November 13), which could require you to go back to the drawing board on previously initiated group projects, social plans, and any community-based efforts. This period can be used to your benefit if you hone your approach to maintaining friendships, serving as part of a team, and doing your part for the greater, universal good.

November 30: This year’s full moon in Gemini also happens to be a lunar eclipse, which means this time period could mark a dramatic culmination point, after which change is inevitable. If you’ve been dedicating yourself to a cause that simply isn’t serving you (especially over the past six months), or if it’s time to shift your perspective in order to move in a healthier, happier direction, this eclipse will serve to change the game and catapult you forward. It could also feel like you’ve finished one major chapter in your life and are now emotionally prepared to progress forward. Being one of the signs most comfy with change, you should be able to make the most of this moment.