Celebrity Jennifer Lopez Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck Already Have Holiday Plans Blending families sounds like an epic undertaking. By Christopher Luu Christopher Luu Instagram Twitter Christopher is a Southern California-based editor and has been with InStyle since 2018. He covers all things entertainment, celebrity, and culture. InStyle's editorial guidelines Published on September 16, 2021 @ 03:22PM Pin Share Tweet Email From red carpet debut to Met Gala masked makeout, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck haven't been keeping their rekindled romance quiet these days. And if things go according to plan, it looks like things aren't slowing down. According to Entertainment Tonight, the two are already deep into the process of planning the holidays together, which could involve bringing their kids together and multiple trips to accommodate everyone, including exes Jennifer Garner and Marc Anthony. "It is like they never broke up, but everything is way better this time," a source told ET. "They are all over each other and their friends joke around about it with them." Bennifer's plans might include solo trips and full-on get-togethers for the children. Affleck shares three children, 15-year-old Violet, 12-year-old Seraphina, and 9-year-old Samuel, with Garner and Lopez shares twins Emme and Max with Anthony. "They plan on spending the holidays together with the kids and also taking some solo trips," the source added. "They want to be together all of the time, so their next big things are Thanksgiving and Christmas with all the kids. There is a lot to coordinate, so they are figuring it out." Photo by Rocco Spaziani/Archivio Spaziani/Mondadori Portfolio via Getty Images Gwyneth Paltrow Had the Sweetest Reaction to Ex Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez's Red Carpet Return Garner doesn't hold any ill will towards Lopez and is happy that everyone is getting along and, most of all, very happy. The source even noted that Garner mentioned that Affleck looks better than he has in a long time and that everything with Lopez hasn't strained the co-parenting arrangement that Affleck and Garner have. "Her kids love J.Lo and J.Lo loves them too. It is all positive," the source finished. "When Ben is happy and the kids are happy, Jen feels like there is nothing she can be upset about. Jen also says Ben looks better than ever. She and Ben are getting along so well in a co-parenting sense and all is good." An additional source previously told ET that both Affleck and Garner are prioritizing the kids and their happiness — and that it's been fun so far for everyone. "It's been fun for them to do activities as a blended family and the kids are enjoying getting to know each other better," the source said. "Jen and Ben are both hands-on parents and their kids are their number one priority, so it's important for them to do things as a unit that make their families happy."