Why You Keep Getting Ingrown Hairs From Waxing — and How to Get Rid of Them

I think I'm getting scammed by Brazilian waxes. I'm a former shaver, but I didn't truly understand the pain of ingrown hairs until I started getting regular waxes a few years ago.

Razor burn is what convinced me to try waxing in the first place. I went into my first Brazilian appointment expecting to come out hairless, smooth, and carefree. Well, I was for a little while, but then I started getting ingrown hairs after every wax. In reality, my ingrown hairs stressed me more than the inevitable pain from the wax.

So, what causes ingrown hairs? How do you quickly get rid of ingrown hairs? And can you even prevent ingrown hairs in the first place? I turned to a waxing expert and top dermatologist to get the facts.

What Causes Ingrown Hairs?

There are a few reasons why ingrown hairs happen. Uni K Wax founder Noemi Grupenmager says that wax made with irritating chemicals, using hard wax that's too hot, and poor waxing techniques are all common causes of pesky ingrown hairs. Oh, and wearing tight clothing on the reg.

"A bad technique is when the waxer cuts the hair at skin level instead of removing it from the root, which might make a person more likely to have ingrown hairs," she explains.

Will Exfoliating Prevent Ingrown Hairs?

All of my waxing appointments start with my waxer asking if I exfoliate. I try to convince her that I do (sometimes twice a day), but I honestly don't think she ever believes me. I'm considering storing a photo on my iPhone of all of the scrubs and exfoliating gloves I have in my shower just to prove it to her.

For the record, I exfoliate between waxes and even use skincare products specifically formulated for preventing and treating ingrown hairs. Despite all of the effort I put into my between-waxing skincare routine, I still get those painful, huge, bumpy ingrown hairs. So, why does my bikini area look like a stucco wall in one of the bad New York apartments I've considered renting? Board-certified dermatologist Dr. Melanie Palm offers some answers.

First, she confirms how important it is to exfoliate regularly between wax appointments. "Using a mild exfoliant between appointments is the most effective way to prevent ingrowns from occurring," she explains. "Using a topical wash, gel, lotion, or solution containing glycolic, lactic, or salicylic acid is best."

CeraVe SA Body Wash for Rough and Bumpy Skin, Pixi by Petra Glycolic Body Wash, and Neutrogena Body Clear Acne Body Wash are three great drugstore options.

Why Do You Sometimes Still Get Ingrown Hairs if You Exfoliate?

So what if you still get ingrown hairs even if you do prioritize exfoliation? Genetics might be to blame. "You may be perfectly following the exfoliating steps of your wax studio, but ingrown hairs are much more likely with coarse, curly hair," explains Dr. Palm. "Straight hair is much less likely to take a deep dive back into the skin, but those with curlier textured hair are at greater risk of bumps along the bikini line."

How Can You Get Rid of Ingrown Hairs from Waxing?

Sometimes, though, what you think is an ingrown hair is actually a more serious issue like folliculitis, staph infections, or even a recurrent cyst. Dr. Palm says that folliculitis or a staph infection can be treated with benzoyl peroxide, but more serious cases need a prescribed antibiotic or culture at a doctor's office. Cysts, she says, need topical and oral prescription treatment.

Okay, so how can I do some quick damage control to get rid of the ingrown hair that's rubbing against the seam of my underwear right now? The reality is that the only way to really get rid of ingrown hair is to remove the hair permanently via laser hair removal. However, Dr. Palm says that you can reduce the inflammation by using a topical chemical exfoliator like salicylic acid, which can help speed up the skin's renewal cycle and "unhoof the ingrown hair." But remember that the redness and swelling may take two to three days to subside.

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However, "more inflamed cases may require an injection of dilute steroid by your physician, or a short course of an oral antibiotic in the tetracycline family to reduce inflammation, not to fight an infection," she explains.

Alright, I might be hair-free, but unless I'm willing to shell out some serious coin for laser hair removal, my bikini line might never be 100% smooth. But guess what? I'm still going to buy that viral Amazon high-cut swimsuit anyway.