While president Donald Trump has been in the White House for nearly two years, that reality is still difficult for most of the country to accept—Michelle Obama, included.
On Saturday, the former First Lady joined Black-ish star Tracee Ellis Ross on stage at the United State of Women Summit in Los Angeles to discuss the problem with how we view female politicians, citing the outcome of the 2016 election.
"In light of this last election, I'm concerned about us as women and how we think," she said, according to The Hill. "What is going on in our heads where we let that happen, you know?"
She continued: "When the most qualified person running was a woman, and look what we did instead, I mean that says something about where we are. That's what we have to explore, because if we as women are still suspicious of one another, if we still have this crazy, crazy bar for each other that we don't have for men … if we're not comfortable with the notion that a woman could be our president compared to … what, then we have to have those conversations with ourselves as women."
She has a point: forty-two percent of women voted for Trump, with the majority being white women. "I wish that girls could fail as bad as men do, and be OK, because let me tell you, watching men fail up—it is frustrating," she added. "It's frustrating to see a lot of men blow it and win. And we hold ourselves to these crazy, crazy standards."
Though Michelle embodies the qualities of a great leader, she revealed that she probably won't run for office anytime soon, crushing nearly everyone's dreams of seeing the Obamas back on Capitol Hill.
"That's not the answer, either," she said. "When I hear people say, 'You run,' it's part of the problem. We still didn't get 'Yes we can' right. It's not yes you can, it's yes we can. And until we get that right, it doesn't matter who runs. And look, I don't think I'm any different from Hillary."